Tidying up the living room together

[jrineakter]

He takes an example in the video, he talks about vacations, he says: "Vacation doesn't start when you arrive at the place and go to the beach". Vacation starts when you decide to organize it, the planning times, the travel time too. So when you see it like that, you tell yourself that the travel time, ultimately, has the same quality as the time you'll be sitting on the beach. You have to actually enjoy every moment.

Doing homework with the children, that's something I thought about, saying to myself: "Yes, do I spend a lot of time with my children in the end?" Well yes, when we do homework, we shouldn't see it as a chore. Homework is the work that the children bring home from school and that they have to do at home. It's not a chore, it's an opportunity to be together, to learn and to strengthen our relationship. And so, I'm very happy.

Well, it's always been something I did with pleasure, but now I try to see it in an even more positive way, that is to say that in the end spending an hour doing English with Tom, since I help Tom in English, or spending an hour doing mathematics with Emma, ​​it has the same quality as spending an hour at the beach with them. It's time, it's the same time, ultimately. So the idea is to focus on that and make the most of it.
r or clearing the table after dinner takes time, and it should also be time that we enjoy and not waste, ultimately.

So the big idea, the strong idea, is that every moment is a quality moment if you decide to make it so. In fact, the big key and the big thing that we can influence is that we have to decide. So before accompanying Tom to do his English homework, rather than saying "oh la la, I'm going to spend another hour when I have a lot of work", I have to say to myself "well no, I'm going to spend an hour with my son and he's going to learn things and I'm certainly going to learn other things", because when we teach or when we explain, we reinforce our own knowledge.

So it's ultimately up to us to decide to spain whatsapp number data make each moment a quality moment. I think you'll agree with me. And we must therefore not try to escape from certain moments or see them as wasted moments, to get rid of as quickly as possible.

If we go back to what I was saying earlier about household chores, for example, if we have to put things away, if we have to clear the table, we shouldn't say to ourselves: "Hey, that's a moment... it's not quality time, it's wasted time, I have to get rid of that moment." No, we can use it because ultimately, these moments are given to us and they are the only ones we have. The next 5 minutes are the only 5 minutes I'll have and it's up to me to make 5 quality minutes of them. No one can say: "Well, there you go, Johan, today, out of 24 hours, you'll have 12 hours of quality, 12 hours of non-quality." That's not how it works. So we ultimately have to use all the moments we have.

Unfortunately, we don't know how much time we have left, but we know that these moments are limited. There is the famous Stoic adage, once again used by the Romans, "memento mori", which means "remember that you are mortal" and which encourages us to say "life being finite, there is an end, make the most of it".