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Once you do that, you prepare yourself for it and you think, "Okay. What if this worst thing that could happen happened? Am I going to be able to handle it? Am I going to be able to withstand this?" And that's where you have to know yourself, because sometimes we all have different levels of stress tolerance, and sometimes it's better not to commit to something that would be unbearable, something that we couldn't handle. Even if the reward seems huge, you don't want to risk it. That first phase is really, "Come on, is this worth it?" and you think about the worst that could happen and you ask yourself, "Can you withstand this?"

Then you define the project. It's always interesting to sit down, take notes and say to yourself: "OK. Here are the main steps of the project that scares me but that will bring me a lot." And you act as quickly as possible but slowly, that is to say, you start with a very small step.

If it's a project, I don't know, of expatriation for example, the first action will really be to watch for example YouTube videos that talk about the destination you want to go to. Ideally, look for positive and negative videos, because that's always the problem. You say, I don't know, I'm going to expatriate to Brazil and you only watch france whatsapp number data positive videos, well you're going to be reinforced in your idea, while it won't necessarily be ideal for you. The best thing is to look for positive and negative videos and to make a summary for yourself. And then, you see, you've taken this first step. Then, you're going to ask yourself the question: "OK. Where in Brazil?"

And you're going to move forward like that little by little without making crazy plans, that is to say without having very detailed planning by saying: "I'm going to do this; then, I'll do this; then, I'll do that" because it never happens as planned. It took me a long time to understand that, but unfortunately, life always has a lot of surprises in store for us, so there's no point in planning too intensely, you just have to plan the broad outlines. And for the rest, we move forward without telling ourselves stories. As I said earlier, there's no point in projecting too many things that could happen knowing that our mind always tends to look for danger everywhere. So, you have to stay measured. And then, you continue to move forward, you learn, you correct and you stay flexible.

Once you have done that, you will have entered the big family, which is not so big after all since, in my opinion, it represents a minority of people, but you will be in the family of the truly courageous, not people who tell you: "I would really like to expatriate abroad" and who ultimately never go or: "I would really like to start my own business", but who never do.

This is not a value judgment at all. When I say this, there is no arrogance on my part, but I know that most people dream of this, dream of having their own business, dream of going to live abroad, of having this type of experience, but few have the courage to do it, very few, it is a reality.

What I advise you here through this little method, the little steps that I gave you, is to do it, to be courageous, not by having no fear because that is impossible, but by really understanding that the antidote to fear is action and that courage is not the absence of fear but our capacity to act despite our fears.